This is a true life story by a blog reader who needs help on how to forget a very terrible relationship.
NGLatest dearies, read and drop your advice:
I hope this site is fully anonymous because this is very personal. I
dated this piece of poo last year for 2 months and 8 days. We met
through a hook up from one of my friends. We bleeped on the 2nd night.
Not that i wanted to but he sort of really insisted. I went to meet him
at a part after which we spend the night at his friends house. I could
on leave coz i did not have a car and i had to be dropped home. I was
determined never to see the guy again after that night.
silent on him for 2 weeks. only to find out i was pregnant. So i finally
picked up his call and told him. He asked me to get rid of it. So i
did. I was scared like hell. This made me loose my self and i needed his
support through the process. He used to come see me and comfort me.
When i got better we started to Bleep. We would Bleep every time we met.
I thought we had a relationship but i suspected he only stayed for the
sex. We had some really good times together. I fell for him. the problem
was that he did not call me his girlfriend and that is what
disappointed me. He said i should give him time. Time for what?? I was there playing wife like an idiot and the son of a Dam wants time.
I had gone through an abortion and was providing him sex! like WTF!!!
So i told him i could not stay coz he did not make us official. So i
dumped him,changed my phone number and moved on. He kept calling where i
work and asking for me. He got my number from my friend and kept
calling saying he wants me back!!! What a piece of poo!!! I did not go
back. he is 30 yrs old, i am 23. I work at a bank and am fully
Independent. Its been 4 months since and i sometimes remember and wonder
why i put up with him in the first place!! I lost 2 months and 7 days
of my live in love with an idiot. I even don’t speak to the friend who
hooked us up. Please advise…how can i fully forget that this ever